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  1. Efua said:

    #Truth. I think marriage in recent times has lost its sanctity with all the excuses and justifications people make to support their acts of infidelity and adultery

    December 11, 2014
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    • BenJ said:

      It’s sad, isnt it Efus? There is hope though…there’s you :-)

      December 12, 2014
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  2. Belinda Bentil said:

    Good piece there Benj, I always say I see married men as men with HIV. I stay as far away as possible. ……Be blessed dear friend!

    December 11, 2014
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    • BenJ said:

      Hahaha Bel, nice way to flee. HIV is mighty effective!

      December 12, 2014
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  3. Eunice said:

    Nice piece, these “hot girls” forget that they will one day get married and another lady would also want to cling to their men.

    December 12, 2014
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    • BenJ said:

      I don’t think they care much o Eunice. The ‘it’s a dog eats dog world’ makes them numb to the whole analysis thing.

      December 12, 2014
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  4. nathalie said:

    Thanks for bringing this up. I have been pondering over this issue recently, in fact I have been a witness to some cases. Its sad isn’t it. But I also think its more than what meets the eye, so while the men are watching (not to fall into temptation)their wives should be praying for them. Its not easy.

    December 12, 2014
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    • BenJ said:

      Yes yesss Nathalie, a two-way street it is.. Everyone’s got a part to play. You’re very right.

      December 13, 2014
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  5. kwabena Darko said:

    Great piece…..as always

    December 13, 2014
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  6. Allen said:

    statements like ” Most married men like that too. Suddenly they’re irresistible. They’re digging more holes than an international golf course can boast of” scares the shit out of me that i might also end up like them..cos people always say men always that..

    December 14, 2014
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    • BenJ said:

      Well i don’t think there’s the need to fear Allen. I think caution is always better. It’s difficult, but it’s not impossible. Grace has a way of enabling things we otherwise could never have done! So be encouraged bro. We can do this ;-)

      December 15, 2014
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  7. nife said:

    same goes for married women as well… these days, they are becoming mafia paaaa… #Mercy and #Grace :)

    December 20, 2014
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    • BenJ said:

      Lol, desperate times Nife, calling for desperate measures.

      December 22, 2014
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